Yes, why do we cheat?. I mean WE!
Do you know that, everyone always have a positive reason for cheating. Would you accept cheating for the wrong reasons?. I guess not. I have being there before. Smiles!
I took a personal research on this particular topic. And, it took me 2yrs to come to this conclusion. Now read carefully onwards.
Why do we cheat?.
At the cause of an interview with people (Married and singles), this was the remarks I received from them.
√ Vic, I love my partner so much. I only cheated became I need some money. Well, if your partner was financially buoyant, would you had cheated?.
√ “Vic, I love my partner so much. I only cheated because I needed a sexual satisfaction which I have not gotten in a long while”. Well, if your partner is sexually active, would you had cheated?.
Everyone I met always at the cause of my research would always have a good reason for cheating. However, they still love their partners, but, something was actually missing. Hmmm!
Now, why do we actually cheat?.
After my findings, I came out with the simple reason why we cheat. This will shock you.
* The reason why we cheat is that, in every seconds of the day, we always set our eyes on people who are better than our partners.
√ Social prestige, and
√ In other ramifications.
And, as human in our selfish nature, we always want the BEST even when we are not close being good. Think!
How can cheating be controlled?.
Well, as long as human beings are not equal, it is almost impossible to control the problem. However, there is a good news.
√ Contentment: The only solution to this problem is being contented with that special someone in your life. Knowing fully well that, there is someone out there who is better than him/her.
At this point in your life, you do not need someone to love you. All you need is someone to become committed to you. The era of love is gone. We are in the era of commitment.